Spicy Questions to Ask Your Partner

Even if we value communication in relationships, some things do not even cross our minds until asked directly. In this blog, we have gathered 40 questions you can answer together with your partner. Some of them will help you get closer emotionally, some – physically (as they are quite spicy). Get some wine, light up the candles, and enjoy an evening of creating a deeper connection and intimacy with your significant other.


1. What part of your body are you proud of?

2. Name at least 2 places where you would like to have sex.

3. Was it love at first sight when you and your partner met?

4. Do you have fantasies regarding food and sex?

5. Name 3 reasons why your partner is a great lover.

6. What is your idea of a perfect Sunday afternoon?

7. What is the craziest thing you've ever been asked to do in bed? Did you do it?

8. What is your ideal vacation?

9. Name 2 things that are on your bucket list. If you don’t have one, try to think at the moment.

10. If you could change gender for a day, with whom of your friends would you like to have sex?

11. It turns me on when you call me … during sex.

12. What can your partner do or say to get you in the right mood?

13. Name 3 reasons you love your partner.

14. What is your favourite memory together?

15. Describe the worst date you’ve ever had.

16. I wish we did less … during sex.

17. What will our relationship look like in 5 years?

18. If you were to have a threesome, who would you want the third person to be?

19. What is your biggest fear in a relationship?

20. Have you thought about marrying your partner?

21. What oral techniques do you enjoy most?

22. What relationship cliché do you think is true?

23. Can you remember what your partner was wearing on your first date?

24. What was your favourite sexual experience with your partner?

25. When you and your partner had sex for the first time, was there anything particular that you noticed?

26. What’s your favourite sex toy?

27. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

28. If you could go back to any moment in your life and do things differently, would you?

29. What physical quality do you find attractive?

30. What is the most embarrassing thing you have ever done while being drunk?

31. What is your perfect romantic getaway destination?

32. If you were to start your relationship all over, what would you do differently?

33. If you were going to role play, who would you want your partner to dress up as?

34. What superpower would you like to have during sex?

35. What was the best relationship advice you have ever received/given?

36. Is there a fetish you have that you are scared/ashamed to tell your partner? Now is the time.

37. Where is your favourite place to have sex outside of the bedroom?

38. Ideally, how many times would you have sex in a week?

39. What is something you've always wanted to try in bed?

40. What is your favourite way of spending time with your partner?


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